The joy of helping others is one of the most powerful feelings we can experience. It is at the core of our nature as human beings. And it is nice to help someone in need.
But it is nicer if that person shows commitment, engagement, conviction. It is nicer when that person is generous, kind and humble. It is nicer to see that person working hard towards her goals.
Nobody has all the answers. We can’t achieve all that we want for ourselves alone. We need the help from others. And it is completely fine to ask them for help.
In fact, if you ask people to help you. Often you will be surprised at who will say yes and give you her time.
Let people know what it is that you’re trying to do and they’ll help you.
And when they do so, remember that it is nicer when they see you working hard towards your goals.